You Don’t Have to Be Ready to Leave: Introducing the 100 Sparks for Pre-Contemplation" Workbook

Sometimes clarity starts with a whisper.

Not a bold exit. Not a clean answer. Just a quiet "something doesn’t feel right."

If you're caught in a toxic relationship and unsure what to do next, you are not alone. The confusion, the cognitive dissonance, the back-and-forth between love and hurt—these are not signs of weakness. They're signs of survival.

That’s why I created 100 Sparks for Pre-Contemplation, a digital workbook designed to help you pause, reflect, and gently reconnect with your truth.

What Is the Pre-Contemplation Stage?

Pre-contemplation is the phase before any big decision. It’s filled with:

  • Uncertainty

  • Emotional exhaustion

  • Doubt about whether your experience is "bad enough"

  • Guilt, shame, or fear of being wrong

It’s also filled with wisdom.

There’s a part of you—even if it’s buried under fear—that wants peace. This workbook is for that part of you.

What You'll Find Inside "100 Sparks"

This is not just a journaling workbook. It's a trauma-informed, somatic, and creative arts-based tool designed to gently awaken clarity.

You'll explore:

  • 15 Somatic Awareness Sparks to tune into your body's signals

  • 15 Creative Arts Therapy Sparks for visual + emotional processing

  • 15 Journaling Prompts to unpack confusion, conflict, and self-doubt

  • 10+ Mindset Shifts to challenge gaslighting and honor your voice

You can begin with 1-3 Sparks a week. There is no timeline. Just presence.

Who This Is For

  • High-achieving professionals who feel emotionally confused

  • Individuals questioning a narcissistic or toxic relationship

  • Anyone not ready to leave, but no longer okay staying silent

  • Survivors who want to rebuild trust with their own intuition

Why It Works

Traditional talk therapy isn’t always enough. This workbook combines:

  • Creative expression

  • Body-based insight

  • Emotional validation

  • Trauma-sensitive language

...to support your healing on multiple levels.

What Others Have Said:

"I didn’t even realize how much I was minimizing until I read one of the Sparks... It opened something in me."

"The somatic exercises helped me feel safe in my body again after years of numbness."

"For the first time, I could ask myself, 'What do I need?' without guilt."

Download Now for Just $11

This is not a push. It’s an invitation.

A gentle nudge back to your body. To your voice. To your truth.

👉 Download 100 Sparks for Pre-Contemplation

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